Kids at Urban Action Academy in Canarsie made color photocopies of a screen grab of social studies teacher Angela Costa’s private message — in which she thanked her lover for giving her “a couple of orgasms” — and spread it throughout the entire building on June 13, sources said.
The students dropped dozens of copies in the third-floor hallway, a scene captured on video, according to sources.
Among them was a 34-year-old woman married 14 years to a minister who she discovered was compulsively seeking sexual satisfaction by visiting pornographic sites on the Internet.
"How can I compete with hundreds of anonymous others who are now in our bed, in his head? "Our bed is crowded with countless faceless strangers, where once we were intimate." A 38-year-old woman married 18 years to a man who compulsively masturbates to images on the computer wrote that her husband had once had an extramarital affair and that "the online 'safe' cheating has just as dirty, filthy a feel to it as does the 'real-life' cheating." Although Dr.
Cooper's survey indicates that most female cybersex addicts are single, married women also become cybersex addicts and their husbands suffer the consequences.
A 44-year-old man married 26 years to a woman who became hooked on cybersex wrote: "At first we had sex more than ever as I desperately tried to prove myself. I get strong pictures of what she did and lusted after, and I get repelled and feel bad." Women who become cybersex addicts may face even greater risks than their male counterparts.
And some people, including two physicians, have landed in federal prison for two years because they downloaded child pornography when authorities were watching, Dr. Still, most who pursue cybersex consider it harmless and safe to do so. In her survey, 91 women and three men in committed relationships said they had experienced serious adverse consequences, including broken relationships, from their partners' cybersex addictions.
While social and safety concerns and fear of discovery may prevent someone from visiting an adult bookstore or prostitute, there are no such constraints when pornography and sexual partners can be called up at any time of the day or night on a computer screen in one's home or office, Dr. Partners commonly reported feeling betrayed, devalued, deceived, ignored and abandoned and unable to compete with a fantasy.
Children may also suffer as a result of increasing conflict between the parents or breakup of the marriage.But the horrifying incident wasn’t reported to the Department of Education by school administrators until June 17, sources said.And the culprits have not been punished for distributing Costa’s message, according to the teacher and school insiders.Putnam put it, "Once people get hooked on cybersex, they tend to put themselves at risk and do things they wouldn't ordinarily do." Home | Site Index | Site Search | Forums | Archives | Marketplace Quick News | Page One Plus | International | National/N. Brooklyn students hacked into the intimate Facebook exchanges between a teacher and her ex-boyfriend, leaving her feeling unsafe in her own school.
"Simply sitting down to work at the computer can start a sexual response that may facilitate online sexual activities," he wrote in the journal.